Phone Chat Lines

The short answer is no. The long answer? Anything is possible, but the chances of connecting in real life with someone who is SUPER boring over the phone are slim to none. Phone chats help warm you both up to meeting in person, and if the guy/gal on the other end can’t make that even a little bit interesting over the line, don’t count on them coming through in real life.

You Either Have Personality…Or You Don’t

A person who is boring over the phone is probably just as boring in real life. Fact. Personality is something you have or you don’t, and it’s also something that’s made evident no matter what the medium. A phone call, a text, an in-person hang – if somebody is fun that becomes obvious just as quickly as it does when someone is a total bore. But if there’s one thing we learn from a boring phone chat, it’s that a real life one would be just as lame! With apps like QuestChat you can avoid an awful date by figuring out if a connection exists over a phone call or message first. Getting the deets BEFORE the meet up – it’s kind of great right? Read More

1) Your Ex(es)

This is always a red flag. Discussing your ex(es) is number one out of all the topics to avoid on the phone with a guy. Why focus on the past when you can focus all your energies on a new potential partner? Talking about your exes and how horrible (or super awesome) they were will give off the signal to your phone chat partner that there may still be lingering feelings and that you might not be ready to move on just yet. Read More